Resources

BDSM Resources & Links

My own journey and obsession with BDSM began long ago. I had always been curious about sex and willing to experiment with new ideas. However, most of my early experiences with BDSM were literature-based from hints by L Ron Hubbard to complete submersion with Anne Rice, Anne Desclos, and others. Even with years of experience I continue discovering new concepts, ideas, and desires. I hope you find benefit in this resource list of my favorite sex-positive websites, authors, books, toys, and more. -Quinn

Self-Help Books

We all need help and information from time to time as we explore BDSM and other forms of Kink. Here are a few of the books that helped shape my perceptions and approach in my personal life.

Favorite Authors:

Alexa Sommers: Geek Erotica, Erotica writer tips, Creator of Golden Pigtail Awards

BJ Frazier: BDSM

B. R. Saiph: BDSM

B. B. Pierce: Erotica Author & Writing Resources

Chuck Tingle: Inventor of “Tinglers” Erotica, Buckaroos, and the Tingleverse. Hugo award-nominated author.

Edward Cantor: Blogger, BDSM

Emily Morse: Advice, Sex blog

Girl on the Net: Sex blog

Hardison Parker: Hotwife, Erotica

Jupiter Grant: Erotica (Inactive)

Lacey Cross: Erotica, Hotwife

Lemon Letters: Erotica

Melodee Aaron: Erotica, Romance, Author/Promotions (Inactive)

Pearl O’Leslie: Femdom, BDSM, Lifestyle

Penandkink: Artist

Sharyn Ferns: Femdom, BDSM, Kink Education, Erotica

The Secret Submissive: Erotica, BDSM

Hank Dolworth: Erotica

Zatanna Dark: Erotica & Erotic Horror

Favorite Sites/Blogs:

Deviant Designs: Designer and Content Creator

Femtopia: Femme-positive Imagery

Medium: Hundreds of writers on erotic and non-erotic topics

Fetlife: Discover kink-friendly events and people

Toys/Merchandise:

Bon4 (Review)

Cherry Keeper (Review)

Knotty Knickers (Review) Free Pair Coupon Code: E72RBE

We-Vibe Vector (Review)

Booty Sparks (Review)

Videos:

Sssh.com : Female-led and Female-focused we’re your source for ethically produced, explicit, sex-positive films.

Podcasts:

LovingBDSM :  Fun and flirty podcast by a married D/s couple, sharing their thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.

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