BDSM Resources & Links

My own journey and obsession with BDSM began long ago. I had always been curious about sex and willing to experiment with new ideas. However, most of my early experiences with BDSM were literature-based from hints by L Ron Hubbard to complete submersion with Anne Rice, Anne Desclos, and others. Even with years of experience I continue discovering new concepts, ideas, and desires. I hope you find benefit in this resource list of my favorite sex-positive websites, authors, books, toys, and more. -Quinn
Self-Help Books
We all need help and information from time to time as we explore BDSM and other forms of Kink. Here are a few of the books that helped shape my perceptions and approach in my personal life.
- The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton (Author), Janet W. Hardy
- The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton (Author), Janet W. Hardy
- Femdom for Nice Girls by Lucy Fairbourne
- Locked in Love by Key Barrett MSc
Favorite Authors:
Alexa Sommers: Geek Erotica, Erotica writer tips, Creator of Golden Pigtail Awards
BJ Frazier: BDSM
B. R. Saiph: BDSM
B. B. Pierce: Erotica Author & Writing Resources
Chuck Tingle: Inventor of “Tinglers” Erotica, Buckaroos, and the Tingleverse. Hugo award-nominated author.
Edward Cantor: Blogger, BDSM
Emily Morse: Advice, Sex blog
Girl on the Net: Sex blog
Hardison Parker: Hotwife, Erotica
Jupiter Grant: Erotica (Inactive)
Lacey Cross: Erotica, Hotwife
Lemon Letters: Erotica
Melodee Aaron: Erotica, Romance, Author/Promotions (Inactive)
Pearl O’Leslie: Femdom, BDSM, Lifestyle
Penandkink: Artist
Sharyn Ferns: Femdom, BDSM, Kink Education, Erotica
The Secret Submissive: Erotica, BDSM
Hank Dolworth: Erotica
Zatanna Dark: Erotica & Erotic Horror
Favorite Sites/Blogs:
Deviant Designs: Designer and Content Creator
Femtopia: Femme-positive Imagery
Medium: Hundreds of writers on erotic and non-erotic topics
Fetlife: Discover kink-friendly events and people
Toys/Merchandise:
Knotty Knickers (Review) Free Pair Coupon Code: E72RBE
Videos:
Sssh.com : Female-led and Female-focused we’re your source for ethically produced, explicit, sex-positive films.
Podcasts:
LovingBDSM : Fun and flirty podcast by a married D/s couple, sharing their thoughts, feelings, and experiences on this thing we call BDSM.
Creatives for Creatives!
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